Are you tired of striving for perfection and external rewards that leave you unfulfilled? Success is often misunderstood as merely achieving external accolades and meeting someone else's standards. However, true success goes beyond these superficial measures and lies in the pursuit of inner peace, fulfillment, and joy. In a recent interview on the Real Life Momz podcast, Lynita Mitchell Blackwell shared valuable insights from her book Live Life On Fire, on redefining success and shifting from perfection to excellence. In this blog post, we will explore the five steps to ultimate success, where we set our own standards and prioritize our well-being and happiness.
1-Shifting from Perfection to Excellence:
Perfection, as defined by external standards set by others, can leave us constantly striving to meet an ideal that may not align with our true desires and values. By questioning who sets these standards, we come to realize that they are often imposed by parents, employers, mentors, or coaches. Instead, we can break free from the expectations imposed by others and create our own checklist for success. Define what matters most to you and set goals that align with your values, passions, and purpose. This empowers you to live a more authentic and fulfilling life, guided by your own standards rather than external pressures.
2-Finding Purpose in People:
To live a life filled with peace, joy, and fulfillment, we must shift our focus from material accomplishments to serving others. Each person has a unique purpose, and when we align our actions with that purpose, we become passionate and excited about life. We care less about looking around and comparing ourselves to others because we already feel fulfilled inside and no longer need that external validation.
3-Leaving It All on the Table:
Leaving it all on the table means giving our best effort and not holding onto negative emotions or experiences. In contrast to how men often handle conflicts by moving on, women tend to hold onto grievances, leading to emotional and physical distress. It is essential to acknowledge that we always do the best we can with the knowledge and resources available to us at any given moment.
4-"Unstretching" Ourselves:
As mothers, our responsibilities can feel overwhelming. Breaking down our tasks and responsibilities allows us to identify areas where we can delegate or scale back. It's important to recognize that stretching ourselves too thin is not sustainable or kind to ourselves or those around us. By "unstretching" ourselves and focusing on essential responsibilities, we create room for growth and personal development, which ultimately leads to a more fulfilling life.
5-Embracing Growth and Embracing Change:
Challenges and negative experiences offer opportunities for growth. Just as every cloud has a silver lining, we can be the silver lining in our lives. Stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing new experiences allows us to expand our horizons and evolve as individuals.
Conclusion:
Redefining success from perfection to excellence is a transformative journey. By shifting our focus from external standards to internal fulfillment we can create a life that is truly meaningful and satisfying.
Want to learn more about the 5 steps to ultimate success, living a peaceful, fulfilled, joyful life? Grab a copy of Live Life On Fire, by Lynita Mitchell-Blackwell (As an Amazon affiliate, at no extra cost to you, we will earn a small commission from qualifying purchases.)
Or listen to this full interview on the Real Life Momz Podcast
Lisa Foster, Host of Real Life Momz Podcast
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